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Beating debt is as much to do with what’s going on in your head as it is to do with what’s going on in your wallet. If you have a debt problem you can solve it if you admit this. Here are five steps you can take to begin beating your debt:

1.Take control
There comes a point where you have to admit that your debt is defeating you. You can’t keep up with repayments; the interest charges are mounting up and, maybe even worse, you’re using one loan to pay off another.

You have to take control of your finances: if you don’t your creditors will. If you are in denial about this you need to face the truth. If you can face the truth and take control, you’re on the first step to beating debt.

2.Live within your means
Take a look at your credit card and charge-card statements. What did you spend that money on?

Go round your house and take a good hard look at the goods that you bought with those credit cards. Are they worth it? Did you want them that much? What difference have they truly made to your life?

What do you feel like when you look that stuff and say to yourself, ‘I haven’t paid for that (xxx) yet’?

3.Reduce your stress
Debt can become a nightmare and stress can send you into a spiral of despair. It doesn’t have to be like that. There’s a way out but it’s not an easy way out. You have to take control of yourself and your spending, and resolve to get your life back. When (and only when) you’ve got that mental resolve, then consider consolidating your debt.

4.Eliminate your debt
Consolidating your debt is a one-chance option of repaying your debt. The debt doesn’t disappear, but all the various loans and debts get lumped together into one bigger loan to be paid off over a longer period and at a lower interest rate. This frees up some of your income and will instantly reduce your stress.

And, crucially, you shouldn’t continue to rack up credit card debts. You will only eliminate your debt if you live within your means.

Try an experiment. Leave your credit cards at home for a week and live on cash. Pay for everything with money – yes, everything. This will help you get a handle on your need to budget. When you see the money slipping through your fingers it will bring home the reality that your supply of money is limited.

At the end of the week, ask yourself how you feel. If it was difficult but you succeeded in prioritizing your spending, congratulations – you’re in control! If it was hard, or impossible, then try again. You need to be tough with yourself to be in control of your money.

5.Getting your life back
Happiness is not being able to buy useless luxuries: it’s about being free. Cut up all but one of your credit cards, and pay back that credit card every month, without fail. You’ll enjoy the things that money can buy only if you spend money that you have – not money that you borrow. Resist the temptation to indulge yourself with money that you don’t own.

Money has the power to enslave you as well as making you free. When your debt is out of control, you’re enslaved. You can become free only if you take control.

15 Ways Average Person Can Overcome Increasing And Overwhelming Debt

Before sharing these recommendations, I suggest that you have a way of tracking your expenses. This will give you a clear picture of what you spend daily, weekly andor monthly and aid you in reducing expenses where needed.

1) Accept the fact you are in debt and forgive yourself. If you are in denial, you are more likely to repeat the pattern.

2) Reduce monthly expenditures. For example, once the price of gas increased, our monthly gas costs went from roughly 200 to approximately 450- 500.00. In an effort to reduce our gas costs, I stopped taking miniature trips every day. Also, my husband would drive my car on the weekends because it costs less in gas.

3) If youre a person that makes several trips to the grocery store during the month, reduce the number of trips to once a month except for fresh vegetables. This will reduce the number of times you have to put gas in the car. Today, it costs more just to leave the house to get groceries as well as going to work.

4) With the increasing utility bill, begin making repairs to your home now such as getting a programmable thermostat and set it to a certain temperature so that it will automatically come on.

5) As an option, temporarily get a second job for supplemental income. If married, this should be the person that has the ability to generate the most income. I do not recommend any Multi-level Marketing opportunities.

6) For a single person in debt if you are off on weekends, temporarily get a weekend job and put those funds towards the bills along with your regular income.

7) If you have a cell phone and a regular phone that both have long distance, re-evaluate having both phones. It can get expensive to have both with long distance. Maybe you can remove the regular phone and just use your cell phone if most people call you on that number.
If you are a stay at home mom, in my opinion the kids should not be going to daycare. This is an unnecessary expense.

9) Be sensible about your expenditures when it comes to your children. For example, a six month old baby does not need name brand clothing. They need to be clothed. Suggest getting into mommy group where you and your friends can swap clothing based on gender and age. I have a couple of moms that I swap clothes with and this saves all of us from having to shop at the store.

10) Grooming expenses for adults: do you really need to get your nails done every week? Could you put that money towards a bill? If you are getting your hair done whether it is a weave, perm, braids or tinting every week do you need to go to a high end salon or could you go Great Clips for the same thing? I am not saying do not pamper yourself; however, as times get tougher what is the necessity?

11) Maintaining your vehicle is a necessity, but going to a car wash every week is not. You can wash your car at home. Re-evaluate how you are spending your money.

12) If you are a person that likes to go out to eat, reduce the amount of times per month you go out to eat. Begin cooking at home since you are buying groceries for the month.

13) Entertainment whether it is going to the movies, bars or happy hour these expenses add up. For example going to a matinee is 7.50 a person (for the two of us is 15.00 before we even get food, which would cost us another 15.00) do you really need to see the movie now or could you wait three months and see it on DVD. Netflix is an option.

14) Add up how much you spend at a vending machine per week when you are at work if you work outside the home. Consider taking snacks from home.

15) Health insurance if you had a job and are using COBRA for health insurance until you have secured another job, seek an alternative health insurance to the COBRA payments. I remember when I first stopped working at the law firm, we utilized COBRA for almost eighteen months and the price increased two times. Prior to the second increase, I located a shared insurance plan and saved us lots of money.

** There has to be some structure during these difficult economical times. However, these times do not have to be so hard that you cannot enjoy life.